Eating Normally Post-Op
It’s a very common question, “After weight loss surgery, when can I start to eat normally again?” Those of us who have had weight loss surgery a few years ago know the answer - never! But of course it depends on what the definition of “normal eating” is.
My surgery was almost 12 years ago. I was fearful as I approached surgery that my eating days would be over. I love eating and I wondered if I would be able to enjoy a meal ever again. There is an incident that I talk about in my book, Weight Loss Surgery; Finding the Thin Person Hiding Inside You, in which I was sitting in the middle of a restaurant about three weeks before my surgery, eating a quesadilla, and I burst into tears. “I will never be able to eat a quesadilla again,” I wailed! Well I have eaten quesadillas since my surgery. But it comes down to how often and how much.
If “normal eating” means that you will resume your normal life and way of eating prior to surgery, you don’t want to go there. You don’t want to resume your normal life, because you don’t want to go right back to where you were prior to surgery. It is important to always remember your “bariatric roots.” You want to remember how bad you felt physically, how embarrassed you were to be seen in public, how low your self-esteem was as you failed one diet after another, how long your list of medications was, and all of the activities that you wanted to do and just couldn’t. All of those can help you to not go back to the way you ate before.
Anyone going through surgery must be willing to commit to living a healthy lifestyle – eating more sensibly and exercising. You may not be able to exercise prior to surgery, but as you lose weight, exercising should become more possible. The first six months following surgery are not happy months in terms of eating. You start with a liquid diet and progress over a couple of weeks to full liquids, soft foods and then regular food. There will be foods that you aren’t able to eat, because they won’t agree with you. They might feel like they are stuck when you eat them, or they might make you feel nauseated. For the most part that will pass. Personally, being 12 years post-op, I eat out about two times per week. If you saw me eating you would not know that I had surgery except for two things – I eat smaller meals and I chew food very thoroughly. I really don’t like chicken anymore. With the exception of chicken thighs, I find it too dry. If I eat too fast, I still will throw up. I cannot tolerate too many sweets. I can have a small piece of cake or pie or a cookie or two. More than that and I will get sick.
There are rules that I have to follow (eat small meals, eat protein first, avoid carbohydrates, don’t drink while eating, minimal sweets, chew your food very well). If I follow these rules, I enjoy eating and it is much easier to maintain my weight. It is the way I should be eating whether I had surgery or not. 
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